Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Ways to Make Him Want to Commit

Almost every marriage starts out as a huge celebration. But ends up...



The commitment issue. It also seems to spring up in relationships and men and women have very different reactions to this word. When you want to make your man want you and only you, and make him feel like committing to you, then you need to get inside his head and figure out what it is that will make him feel about you. It's not always easy to do, but sometimes you have to get an inside peak in what guys think like in order to find a way to make him want to commit to you.



Truth is, most single guys out there are looking for some kind of commitment in a relationship. Most guys are not looking to be with a new woman every day of the week, they want to have a relationship and a woman that they can count on and know that she will always be there for them.

Here are some tips on how to make him commit to you:

1. Do not try to make him want a commitment, he has to want it on his own.

Of course, there are things that you can do that will kind of entice a man to want to have a committed relationship with you. But, you cannot try and force him into one, or else it is only natural that he will resist you. You can make him want to become committed to you just by showing him that with you in his life, he is much better off than he is without you.



2. Find a way to let him know that he cannot wait forever to make up his mind, just be subtle about it.

Subtlety is the key here, because if you drop an ultimatum on him and he's not in the moment ready for a commitment to you, then there is a good chance that this will be the end of the relationship with him. However, if you are subtle about it, while still letting him know that you will not always be there, he may just come to the conclusion quicker than you think he would.

3. He needs to feel as though the time is right and you can make him feel that way.

Like I said, while you may not be able to force a man into wanting to commit to you, you can make him come to that conclusion on his own by making him feel like it is the right time. Take some time to plan a really special weekend with him and shower him with a little attention and that might be all that it takes into prodding him into wanting to be committed to you.

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